if you find terms for queer identities confusing, arbitrary or unimportant then you’ve probably never had to experience how terrifying it is to not understand your own identity, or the relief of finding a term that helps describe you
(Source: ladyremus, via baberimbaud)
“We are all alone, born alone, die alone, and — in spite of True Romance magazines — we shall all someday look back on our lives and see that, in spite of our company, we were alone the whole way. I do not say lonely — at least, not all the time — but essentially, and finally, alone. This is what makes your self-respect so important, and I don’t see how you can respect yourself if you must look in the hearts and minds of others for your happiness.”
Meanwhile in Finland
(Not my photo)
People say “phase” like impermanence means insignificance. Show me a permanent state of the self.
“He marvels at everything, including typewriters and women. He will never understand.”
sometimes I feel useless but then I remember I breathe out carbon dioxide for plants